Listen. Don't explain or justify.
Meaning: Listen. Learn. Enjoy. Listen. Learn. Enjoy.................. Dont speak.The first duty of love is to listen.
Meaning: If you love her, she will love you back. She will care for you and guide you. So, listen.
It is the province of knowledge to speak And it is the privilege of wisdom to listen.
Meaning: The most profound objects in the universe are simple and silent. Wisdom speaks in the language of silence.
A good listener tries to understand what the other person is saying. In the end he may disagree sharply, but because he disagrees, he wants to know exactly what it is he is disagreeing with.
Meaning: It is a privilege to disagree with anybody. To enjoy the privilege try to understand her better.
Doubt yourself and you doubt everything you see. Judge yourself and you see judges everywhere. But if you listen to the sound of your own voice, you can rise above doubt and judgment. And you can see forever.
Meaning: Nobody will love you, if you dont love yourself. Nobody will listen to you if you dont listen to yourself.
Perhaps the Best Quote, very simple yet profound:
An essential part of true listening is the discipline of bracketing, the temporary giving up or setting aside of one's own prejudices, frames of reference and desires so as to experience as far as possible the speaker's world from the inside, step in inside his or her shoes. This unification of speaker and listener is actually and extension and enlargement of ourselves, and new knowledge is always gained from this. Moreover, since true listening involves bracketing, a setting aside of the self, it also temporarily involves a total acceptance of the other. Sensing this acceptance, the speaker will fell less and less vulnerable and more and more inclined to open up the inner recesses of his or her mind to the listener. As this happens, speaker and listener begin to appreciate each other more and more, and the duet dance of love is begun again.
It is easy to Listen, but hard not to speak. Let the market speak. Listen intently. It is such a simple way to success.
:) Falkor
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